Yes its a stressful and worrying time.
Going to the toilet can be a source of anxiety and stress for a person with dementia, but there are practical steps you can take to alleviate the problems.
Restlessness or agitation may be a sign that a person needs to go to the toilet, so it can be as simple as making sure that they know how to find their way there in time. Or it could be a case of reminding them regularly to avoid a last minute rush. To reduce the risk of accidents, it may even help to replace buttons and zips with Velcro.
Above all it is important not to make an issue out of incontinence and it is extremely important for the dignity of the individual not to embarrass them.
There is a wide range of support products available which can make the toilet more comfortable to use and help with continence management and we highlight some of these below.
Now lets take a look at what you can do in seven simple steps
1. If incontinence is an issue, then check with the doctor whether it is a physical problem that can be treated. It is also sensible to consult a community nurse about appropriate aids such as pads, pants and protective cushions or bedding.
2. For those who cannot make it to the toilet or bathroom easily, mobile commodes have wheels so that a carer can move the person more easily into another room, increasing privacy for the user.
Commode chairs may be beneficial if the toilet is inaccessible or difficult for the person to get to. Models come with a concealed plastic potty and removable lid and may be discreetly designed to look like a standard chair.
3. Commode cushions help if people need to sit for a long period and they require added comfort and pressure relief.
4. Sturdy and lightweight toilet frames, free standing or floor fixed, which fit over an existing toilet offer comfort and support when sitting or standing.
5. A grab rail is designed for permanent fixing to a solid wall in the bathroom, while a suction grab bar can be easily removed when not in use. They are easy to grip and some models come in red or blue for contrast against white tiles or wall. This makes them easier to locate, removing another source of anxiety and decreasing the likelihood of a damaging fall.
6. Raised toilet seats fit onto an existing toilet seat, with or without permanent fixings, making it easier to sit or stand. Built-in armrests are also available on certain models for extra comfort and support.
7. It's important for people with dementia to maintain hygiene standards and retain their dignity, so being able to find the toilet or bathroom easily will help to prolong independence and reduce the stress of toileting and that’s where a purpose-designed sign will pay off.
Which toileting products will help people with dementia?
Commodes - for when the toilet is too far
Commode chairs may be beneficial if the toilet is inaccessible or difficult for the person to get to. Models come with a concealed plastic potty and removable lid and may be discreetly designed to look like a standard chair. CLICK HERE
Mobile Commodes mean increased privacy
For those who cannot make it to the toilet or bathroom easily, mobile commodes have wheels so that a carer can move the person more easily into another room, increasing privacy for the user. CLICK HERE
Toilet Frames help users get on and off
Sturdy and lightweight toilet frames which fit over an existing toilet offer comfort and support when sitting or standing. Free standing and floor fixed models available. CLICK HERE
Grab Rails can be fixed where they are needed
A grab rail is designed for permanent fixing to a solid wall in the bathroom, while a suction grab bar can be easily removed when not in use. They are easy to grip and some models come in blue for contrast against white tiles or wall. This makes them easier to locate, removing another source of anxiety and decreasing the likelihood of a damaging fall. CLICK HERE
Raised Toilet Seats help those less mobile
Raised toilet seats fit onto an existing toilet seat, with or without permanent fixings, making it easier to sit or stand. Built-in armrests are also available on certain models for extra comfort and support. CLICK HERE
Toilet & Bathroom Signage remind users where to go
It’s important for people with dementia to maintain hygiene standards and retain their dignity, so being able to find the toilet or bathroom easily will help to reduce anxiety and prolong independence. CLICK HERE